shllwedance
Female
Amateur Female
(73) seeking
Male
| H | Honolulu, Hawaii, USA | 11004mi/17606km | Map |
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Willing to relocate
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| Dancing | ||||||||||||
| Me | Seeking | |||||||||||
| Pro/Am Status | Amateur |
 Professional  Amateur |
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| Experience | 20 years | at least 0 years experience | ||||||||||
| Proficiency |
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any | ||||||||||
| Dance Styles | American Rhythm American Smooth International Latin International Standard Social Ballroom East Coast Swing/Rock-n-Roll Modern Jive (Ceroc) West Coast Swing Argentine Tango Bachata Country/Western Hustle Line Dancing (C/W) Line Dancing (General) Salsa Chinese Contra Irish Round/Sequence/New Vogue Square |
American Rhythm American Smooth International Latin International Standard Social Ballroom East Coast Swing/Rock-n-Roll Modern Jive (Ceroc) West Coast Swing Argentine Tango Country/Western Hustle Line Dancing (C/W) Line Dancing (General) Salsa Canadian Chinese Contra International Folk Round/Sequence/New Vogue Square |
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| Goals |
Social Competition Performance Training/Practice |
Social Competition Performance Training/Practice |
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| Like to Dance | 2 hrs/day, 5 days/week | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Physical Description | ||||||||||||
| Me | Seeking | |||||||||||
| Gender | Female | Male | ||||||||||
| Age | 73 | 56 to 85 | ||||||||||
| Height (w/o shoes) | 5'0" (152 cm) | 5'0" (152 cm) to 6'3" (191 cm) | ||||||||||
| Weight | 95 lbs (43 kg) | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Hair Color | Black | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Eye Color | Brown | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Body Type | Slim/Slender | any | ||||||||||
| Ethnicity | Asian |
Caucasian/White African Descent/Black Native American Indian Asian Indian Native Pacific Latino Middle-Eastern Other |
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| Personal Information | ||||||||||||
| Me | Seeking | |||||||||||
| Relationship Status | Single |
Single Separated In a relationship Married or Live-in Partner |
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| Occupation | Retired | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Smoking | No |
No Occasionally Daily |
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| Drinking | No | any | ||||||||||
| Education | Some College | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Income | $20,000 - $34,999 US | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Religion | Spiritual but not religious | (unused at present) | ||||||||||
| Open to Dating | Yes |
I don't care. I'm just looking for a dance partner. |
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| Language skill | Chinese English Malay |
English |
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| Credentials | 0 Request Credentials | |||||||||||
| Covid Vaccination | Unanswered | |||||||||||
| My Gifts (2) |
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More About Me
Dancing for me is great way to enjoy music, exercise, socialize and meet other singles. It is also a healthy way to date.
Please read on if interested in a long-term relationship later; or live near Honolulu, Roseville, California, or Las Vegas.
(Presently residing in Hawaii...love it but willing to relocate for love - family/friends are also urging me to move closer to them as we are growing older!).....
I understand that a photo is a must for most guys. But I prefer a gentleman who is not focused on looks, who will always want dance with me and to hold my hands, as I age, no matter how wrinkly! With my energy level, petite size-33-28-34, hair cut sassy/short/windblown, even sans make-up, folks at yoga class think my age is in the fifties. I am neither glamorous (unless you're taking me to ritzy functions?) nor ugly (beware, this is merely my personal opinion!) I strive to be classy on the inside rather than outside. A guy dancer who previewed this profile added: vibrant, spirited, fun-loving; really moves to music!!
Grew up in Malaysia; left 1972; traveled/lived all over. Presently in Hawaii but willing to relocate for love. My Chinese parents were great role models. Introspective as a child, I observed how complex relationships work. Ma showed how to be a compassionate, devoted faithful wife/mother. With Pa, I wasn't spoiled but learned dignity, integrity. This wholesome foundation was crucial in my 22-year marriage; led to success in bonding with/gaining implicit trust, fostering respect from male business partners/friends.
Life's many challenges have honed my character, shaped my spirituality. Every day I count my blessings; walk with a song in my heart, even if it gets broken sometimes; enjoy doing random acts of kindness to make life fun for many; reward good deeds even if not the recipient; laugh and dance as much as possible; try to be a positive influence - one small action can have a ripple effect.
Sharing two quotes:
"A relationship is like a sapling in a nursery - rooted in love, shielded from harsh words, lit by honesty, warmed by compassion, and watered with intimacy."
"Our true nature, according to Aristotle, is to love and be loved!"
Do you believe that quality relationships will make us healthier/happier. Are you seeking a faithful partner to bring more joy, create a warm loving home, honor and cherish him!
Or one who would be just as happy to have a passionately caring friend like no other to enjoy dancing with!
I'm Looking For
I am interested in a dance partner to practice & go dancing with.
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Following is NOT applicable, unless interested in long-term relationship later:
We are both easy-going & upbeat. While dancing, we continuously delight in discovering each other's attributes. I admire anyone who is free of addictions. Intimacy needs to be a balance of emotional-experiential-intellectual-sexual. But, above-average sex-drive, oral/other sexual diseases, pornography, kinky/anal/deviant acts are NOT acceptable. Of course I desire physical intimacy - caresses, snuggling, spooning, showering/fooling around with each other (after I feel secure about commitment/fidelity...hope you admire/respect a woman with self-discipline, wisdom, courage in being different from the norm by reserving her "gift" of healthy lips/sexuality for only a gentleman with honorable intentions)! Bonus points if you’re willing to master giving me massages (....ooooh!! all that would have me melting in your arms!)
I may be achieving independence, yet am old-fashioned enough to still prefer a gentleman who is able to retire comfortably, to be provider and protector (of course, if his health fails through no fault of his own, I would rise to the occasion to be protector). My weakness is in pinching pennies (yes, some of my pennies have dents!) so, if you can afford to be indulgent, that would provide balance for us to relax/enjoy life! In the past, I have helped my ex, and my friends, preserve/build wealth; I would do the same for you. Don't need an extravagant life-style nor a sugar-daddy. We can be frugal, yet generous in spirit. I am content to be homemaker; dance a lot; help with business; organic garden; take care of you/our health so we're able to enjoy outdoors; exercise (to ensure I won't burden you with medical problems in old age); travel; play with your grand-kids (I would be such an incredible grandma!).
Being considerate of your time, I'm frank about my expectations. If my culture seems too traditional to match yours, then we know at the outset. Not looking for a date (I get to dine out enough). Instead am seriously seeking a partner who will appreciate much that I offer - friendship and companionship that is tender, fun-filled, based on my strong values/qualities - respect, trust, thoughtfulness, kindness, endearing acts, laughter, gratitude, sacrifice, loyalty. But, all above wouldn't matter if you only wish to be just a dance-partner. Will still enjoy dancing with you!
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